Characteristics of the Batterer

Has low self-esteem

Is pathologically or extremely jealous and often accuses partner of having affairs

Isolates partner

Controls partner

Is a traditionalist believing in male domination and the stereotypical masculine role in the family

Blames others for the abuse, most often his partner

Denies the abuse and its severity; seems not to remember

Exhibits the "Jekyll and Hyde" dual personality

Has severe stress reactions during which he uses drinking and battering to cope

May have other problems with the law

Has an explosive temper; flies into a rage without provocation

Comes from a family where violence was practiced

May be more violent when partner is pregnant or soon after she gives birth